The Lingerie Lowdown
A Spicy, Sassy Guide to Feeling Yourself
Welcome to the lingerie aisle of life — where lace reigns, straps are confusing, and somehow everything either screams “hot damn” or “help me, I’m stuck.” Whether you’re booking a boudoir session, prepping for a spicy night in, or just want to strut around your house like a Roman goddess who pays her own bills — this guide is here to help you pick your power pieces.
Because here's the truth: lingerie isn’t just for them. It’s for you.
Let’s dive in
1. The Classic Panty & Bra Combo
Think matching bra and panty set. Maybe lace, maybe mesh, maybe both. You know her — she’s reliable, flattering, and just spicy enough to feel dangerous. Like you might accidentally step on someone’s neck.
Best for: All bodies, all vibes. A solid starter if you're easing into lingerie life or need a quick confidence boost.
Pro tip: Go for bold colors (hello, jewel tones) and neutrals or pastels if you want to look like an angel who maybe swears in traffic.
Brand: Hey Mavens!
Why You'll Love It: Hey Mavens! offers a wide range of colorful bras and panties in sizes XXS – 6XL. The best part? What you get is a mystery!! Handmade in Nashville, TN & Woman owned!
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2. Bodysuits & Teddies = a one-way ticket to Damnville
These are your secret weapon. Spicy as hell. They hug curves, and make you feel like a snack wrapped in luxury gift wrap.
Best for: Embracing allll the rolls, dimples, and curves.
Pro tip: Deep V necklines = va-va-voom. Bonus if it snaps at the crotch (for logistics, not seduction)
Brand: Savage X Fenty
Why You'll Love It: Savage x Fenty is a brand that offers sultry bodysuits and teddies in sizes up to 4XL. Their designs are both bold and inclusive, celebrating all skin tones and body types.
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3. Harnesses & Strappy Things
These pieces say: I know what I want. They're empowering, a little edgy, and they turn your body into abstract art. Strap placement can highlight your waist, shoulders, or booty — and some sets even double as outerwear if you’re that girl (and we support you).
Best for: Bold babes
Pro tip: Wear it over a mesh bodysuit or bra set if you’re nervous about baring skin. The layering creates texture 🔥
Brand: Solstice
Why You'll Love It: Funky & Chic. Looking to stand out? This company is paving it’s own path. Sizes range from XS - 3XL.
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4. Sheer Robes & Kimonos: The drama you deserve
These are your power capes. You wear them to glide across the room, dramatically toss them off, or sip champagne like you're auditioning for a villain role. Sheer fabrics keep it spicy, while the flow gives ✨energy✨
Best for: Lounging, layering, and pretending you’re in a perfume ad
Pro tip: Go long and sheer for glamour or cropped and feathery to live out your pin-up dreams
Brand: Fashion Nova
Why You'll Love It: All kinds of styles and ridiculously affordable!!
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5. High-Waisted
High-waisted panties are a GIFT from the lingerie gods. They snatch the waist and turn your session into a retro bombshell moment.
Best for: Literally everyone. We love a high waist.
Pro tip: Pair with a longline bra or bralette!
Brand: Thistle and Spire
Why You’ll Love it: Titled the Shameless Self-Love Club, T&S has designs that would leave anyones jaw on the floor. All shapes, all body types!! Sizes from XS - 3X
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6. Nothing at all. You are the gift.
Let’s be honest: sometimes the sexiest thing you can wear is your birthday suit and a grin. You don’t need lingerie to make an impact.
Best for: Every Body!!
Pro tip: Want a lil coverage? Try some a sheet, some sheer fabric, or just a confident pose. Minimalism can be maximum cool.
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7. Wear whatever you want!
Bring a t-shirt, a cutie outfit you put together, or a statement piece you thrifted. Whatever feels true-to-you and exciting.
We recommend hitting up some local STL Brands for neat outfits:
Final Thoughts
Lingerie isn’t the whole story—but if you’re in the mood to treat yourself, we hope this gave you some fun ideas.
On a budget? Don’t stress. Your own closet is full of trusted favorites.
Now go forth and be the spicy legend you are 🌶️
Do you live in St. Louis? Come see what we’re brewin’ ☕️